Reclaiming Your Power: The Strength You Never Lost

"You are not the problem—the real problem is the power you unknowingly hand over to others."

At HR Greenhouse, we believe in empowerment, healing, and rebuilding confidence for survivors of domestic violence. Too often, individuals in abusive situations internalize blame and feel trapped by fear, guilt, and self-doubt. The truth is, you are not weak, broken, or incapable, but the control that someone else has taken over your life may make you feel that way. The good news? You can take it back.

Abusers thrive on manipulation and control, convincing their victims that they are powerless, that they don’t have options, or that they aren’t strong enough to stand on their own. But the reality is, strength is already within you. The moment you recognize your worth, reclaim your choices, and stop letting others define your reality, you begin to break free. Taking back your power starts with small but intentional steps, seeking help, setting boundaries, believing in yourself, and surrounding yourself with support.

Healing isn’t about changing who you are, it’s about rediscovering the courage, independence, and resilience that’s always been there. At HR Greenhouse, we stand beside you as you step into your new chapter—one where your voice matters, your dreams are valid, and your future is yours to shape.

To anyone who feels stuck in the shadows of someone else’s control: You are not alone, and you are not powerless. Your story is far from over, and the next chapter belongs to you. Let’s reclaim it together.

Elga Lejarza

Founder

HRGreenHouse.org